|Your birthday, 4 years ago|
Look at our "innocent" look that we had at that time, LOL
Looking at this pic, I just realized how time flies so faaassst
That now I can't even go out without eyeliner LOL!
COMPARED TO :
|End of 2014, |
@Your house, your mom's room
These were the newest set of photo we had together, when we both used eyeliner. :')
At that time, you suddenly wanted to buy a lot of make up stuffs, LOL
Tho now, you aren`t wearing even one, right?
**I`m surprised myself why in the process of writing this, it turned out to be longer than I expected, LOL. Even tho I know it's becoming toooooo loooooong and because unlike you, :(, I`m not so good at making your typical handmade gifts, and besides, this kind of thing is the only thing (I think) I`m good of, I would be more than happy if you take a little of your time to read it until finish. HIHI! :') (I know even without me asking, you would, tho :P)
|This is us :)|
My memories growing up together with you starting back in our elementary school days, when I think we have known each other since the second grade (if I`m not mistaken), but we just barely knew each other back then and weren't even close until about we were on the fourth grade... And I already forgot completely, how or the reason why or what made us could get along together back then. All I remember was, we would constantly spending time together, and I would play to your house, almost every weekend. At that time your house was still at the apartment, right? And back then, apartment was still considered a lux and I always said how convenient it was to be able to live in a apartment, cause like, you have everything there! There was a convenience store below, a swimming pool, and for a fourth/fifth grader me at that time, it seemed cool to rode an elevator to a high-level at a house where we could saw the scenery below from up, up above.
@Central Park, ???? year
|Pop up quiz 1 : Do you remember where and what were we doing there?|
(I do! :P)
|Sorry, no u in this pic.|
It`s ur fault for abandoning us. LOL! (kidd)
Mario - Mbak - Putri - Mari - Mommy
@ McCafe Gading
|First photo sticker together!|
Lies - Sen2 - Mari
@Amazon Mall Artha Gading LOL
Well, photos in general actually :P
With T4M (eka-mari-lies-fevi)
*since elementary school ^^
After taking a bath, we would eat dinner together at your house. Your mom would sometimes cook something if she was in the mood or most often, she would buy just the side dishes, and then we ate it together with the freshly-cooked white rice. :) And at the time when there weren`t any food at your house, and you didn`t now what should we eat this time, and asked me, "what should we eat?" you knew what's the most probable answer that would coming up of my mouth, right? Yeah, it's that delicious INDOMIE, especially indomie kuah in soto flavour. LOL! It's that simple to make me happy, LOL!
Pop up quiz 2 : Do you remember where and what were we doing there?
(I do! :P)
So....... I want to make a confession now. That's the sole reason why I went to your house, it's none other than to be able to eat Indomie freely, LOLLLLL! (ketauan deh). HAHAHA!!!!!
|After cutting our hair short|
|At our favorite mall ever, MKG LOL!|
Merry christmas 2013 from us and Line friends haha
|Unfortunately, no pics from that "banjir" time at all, HAHAHA|
Now I`m missing my comfy room and my lovely Doraemons,
So I guess I'd put this pic instead.
(ga nyambung, LOL)
|Once upon a time, when "|
Where do I put that Doraemon pajamas now?!
|Cause bothering you is my newfound hobby, LOL|
|So sorrrrrrrrryyyy :((((|
Don`t ignore me puhleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
|High Schoolers us :)|
@ Cibodas waterfall
|Lies - Mari - Mario - Max - Putri - Desy|
@Taman Bunga Nusantara
|Fast forward few years, and that kid on yellow cloth's height would soon be passing us 3 in an instant :(|
|Our carefree, happy-go-lucky face back then|
|I really wished I could turned back to that time :)|
At that time, it was around christmas / new year holiday when we were on the second / third grade of highschool, (if I`m not mistaken). We spent time together, there were your sister, your mom and few of your neighbors, too. We went to the mall to grab some food, and did some shopping. After that, we played at your house until losing track of time that none of us realized it was already past midnight, (I kinda forgot what time it was) but what I knew was, when I looked at my cellphone, my dad has been calling me several times. I became panicked, so your neighbors, Brandon and Erick suggested to took me home... When I arrived, it was a complete darkness, as if no sign of people alive. I sighed a little, thought maybe everyone and my dad already gone to the dream world~
But, turned out I was wrong. So, the boys wanted to grab some water first before going back home, so as I entered my house along with them, entering the living room, suddenly a familiar voice from I didn`t know where appeared, "Do you know what time is this?". ("Kamu pikir sekarang jam berapa?") And it became a moment of silence.... "The next time you do this again, don`t ever bother to come back home! Just stay there and be their family instead!" ("kalo lain kali begini lagi, sekalian aja gak usah pulang. Jadi anaknya aja sana!").
Seems like we're too close that my dad's probably jealous of our relationship (?)
|We're such a good kids, right?|
At BEM FE's birthday party at our lovely campus LOL
|Some night, year ???? |
@in front of rumah hantu La PIazza Kelapa gading :00
Mari - Lies - Ngelay - Sopialay
Do Fun :)
4 self-proclaimed Gading Girlzzz
Tho 2 of us are not literally living in Gading from the start anyway (LOL)
I MISS YOU ALL GADING GIRLZZZ
*Forgive my alayneszzzz please :(
"Mar, I`d be moving out to Aussie soon. And starting next semester, I`d be dropping out from university, and after that, I`d continue my study there by transferring my credits...................."
I know that you had been wanting to go there all this time. How that you actually wanted to continue your education there after finishing high school, by your biggest sister's influence, ci Patric who was at that time already been there first and already had permanent residence and her own family there. I knew you loved and admired her, and besides you haven`t seen her in a long time, too. But you were always worried that your dad wouldn't allow you to go there because it sure wouldn`t be easy and it sure would cost much.
|Gading Girlzzz reborn|
Minus Sopialay :(
(It's ur fault sop, for betraying us and moving away to south jakarta!!)
Long live, NORTH~~
(Hidup UTARA LOLL!)
|We're also mami's daughters :)|
As your best friend, I was really really sad and rather shocked the moment I heard that news. If I could, if I was the one who decide things, I`d rather you didn`t go and just stayed and continued your study at least until our graduation time. But what could I say? I will be lonely, that was for sure. But at that time, I couldn`t really say anything else except supporting whatever your decision was as long it was good for you and praying for your success there. :)
Well, life must goes on, right? Although something changed for sure, because I can no longer see you as much as I want like before, but hey, ever since you were gone, I still played to your house to visited mommy and also played with sen2 as if with or without you here, nothing has changed, they are still like my own family too. :) And besides, as mentioned in a quote I put above, "True friendship isn`t about being inseparable, it's being separated and nothing changes." Right? :)
First homecoming in 2013
Looked so happy to finally come back (?) LOL.
It always happens like this pattern that now I become used to it. :) After I graduated from elementary school, and chose different junior high than those friend, or after I graduated from junior high and chose different high school, and so on, I always lost those best friends connection, because it would felt like we couldn`t turned back the way we used to. Like, when we were still on the same school, we could met each other almost every day and talked every day and it was so normal that we could hang out together too on every weekends, talking about everything that's been happening in our life. But when you both finally entering different schools or entering different phase of life, of course, you would be busy with new things, new life, and also you would be meeting new people all along in those path. At first, we would still keep contact with each other, asking how was life and probably still could meet with each other once in a week, or maybe once in a month. But as time passes, it's become so natural that we gradually become lost contacts with each other, because we're busy with our new life and new friends. :') Sad as it was, but reality hurts.
And it`s not like I wanted to, but it somehow felt awkward to keep contacting them, mainly because I don`t know what to talk to them anymore. When I had problems or something new coming up that I wanted them to know immediately, like we used to, I resisted because I thought they'd be busy right now and I thought that I`d just be disturbing them. Like, we both already had a new life and I thought that it would probably not interest them anyway, and so, those best friends connection, lost just like that because it`s becoming so awkward for both of us to still keep contacting each other.
Don`t misunderstand me. We're still friends, up until now, too, it was just, I knew that there was something different cause we couldn`t talk with those same feelings and vibe anymore like in the past. And I bet, it's not just me who think this way 'cause most probably, the other side must be thinking some line in that way, too! :)
|Coz it always happens like this....... :)|
Well, it can`t be helped, tho.
I know I`m weird and could be super annoying sometimes
But despite of that, thanks for still sticking up for me!
So, finally the day has come when you had to go Melbourne, Australia in September 2012, to continue your study there. :) We came to the airport to saw you off. We couldn`t held back our tears. .... Well, as they said, for every encounter, there is every parting awaits.........
|You're still keeping this until now, right?|
Don`t say you`ve thrown it away! LOL
On your first homecoming at december 2013, we went to Puncak again to celebrate new year 2014 together with my bros and sis, and this time, your mom came along too!
|Cimory Puncak, still in christmas-new year 2014 vibe|
Look at that kid on the right!
Can`t you believe he's the same kid as that short kid in yellow cloth from pics before? LOL
It`s a proof how time flies so fast,that it's scary (
|Cheers from us, for a better years ahead of us :)|
|Name : "|
Taste : Max said that it was...kinda... awful (?), -__- LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Hey, weren`t you being mean there?
At least we've tried our best :')
And hey, it was still edible!
|Picking out those flowers casually from we-don`t-know-whose-garden-it-was|
And after the last time we met on 2014, I just realized just now that even after I moved to Japan to study here on july last year (2015), it's been 2 years we haven`t seen each other and now as I am writing this, as I browsed through old photos and recalled our past, our moments together, I realize how much I truly miss youuuuuu! If only Doraemon was here, I would ask him to took out "pintu kemana saja" immediately so I could be with you now~!! HUHU!!!! I really want to go to Australia, tooo~~~!! Maybe next year, if there is a chance or someday, really! When that time comes, be my tour guide, ok? ^^
Ah, and you don`t forget about our dream to travel together, do you? You said that someday, when we already have a lot of money and savings we will surely go travel abroad together. I said that I really want to go to Europe, especially France but then you said if it was as far as France, it could wait until we both are already getting married and go with our own husband. (?) LOL! So, finally we decided to go to Thailand first because we`ve never been there and it`s not too far from Indonesia. LOL, someday, someday~~
|Dunno what caption to write here|
I can say that you are probably the most patient and kind-hearted people that I`ve ever met, ever! One of the traits that I really adore from you is, such a peace-lover you are! That even if some people are being mean to you, you can still be calm and not countered it with anger or any dislike feelings on your face at all, but you could still offered them your kind and sincere, sweet smile. As far as I know you, you rarely get mad or shouting at people, and always try to be friendly, helpful and always smile to everyone. You are also the type of people who are very considerate, even sometimes you neglect your own`s will in order to satisfy others' first. (tho I could say this could be your drawback sometimes, you gotta think of yourself more, ok!). So maybe that`s why many people are attracted and drawn to you and they are comfortable being with you, like me, because they can sense kind, "harmless" (who won`t do bad things or take advantage of others) aura from you.
|Even tho I`m covered with all of these creams, you'd still love me, right? LOL|
Ah, and one more thing that I really adore from you is, you are also the kind of people who just want to be heard, but you also want to hear other's problems and NEVER ONCE I FEEL JUDGED or feel blamed at all even after you hear things that I`ve done wrong, my problems or even some "weird" stories (LOL, you know what I mean, right?), when other people could really gave me "WHAAAAT?" or "I can`t believe you, of all people did that" expression and as I`ve already expected, giving blaming or rather, judging comments, which is super natural I think (LOL). Instead, you try to understand the problems from my point of view first, what could be the reason for me doing something like that, not hastily jumped into conclusion, and calmly encouraging me, giving me a proper, positive advice on what should I do, without making me feeling bad or feeling like I`m a failure at all. You don`t know how many times I`ve saved by your positivity. Really! I don`t know how you did that to the point, I think only you who can do that in this whole world, LOL.
|Every time I see this quote, I remember you :)|
So, HAPPY BIRTHDAY once again, my mate, LILIES YULIETA! May you are always blessed by God wherever you are, with good health and long life. May you could pass your next IELTS test, and immediately get your Permanent Residence in Australia without any difficulty! May success always be upon you in whatever you do. I pray that your days ahead, your journey, your future, be it in work, or anything that you choose to do always be smooth without hindrance and even if there are problems thay may appear, hope that you have the power to overcome it all. :) Hope this year you also find a better man than your ex, who is your real prince who could swept up your feet soon!
It's unfortunate that this year, too we won`t be able to meet cause I will go back home to Indonesia for holiday per next month, and you, this december, right? Guess our times don`t pass too, this time. Either way, can`t wait to hear any good news from you!!! Don`t forget to keep me updated if anything happens, and I will too! (Don`t be bored in hearing my random stories, yeah? LOL.) Keep believing in yourself, be optimistic that you can be and do whatever you want! Stay religious and keep being a blessing to other people! Really looking forward to the time that we'll finally be able to meet each other again, and I believe at that time both of us will be a better version of ourselves!!! And last but not least, I hope that you could enjoy your birthday and passing every day to the fullest and may your days could always be filled with smile and laughter!
As a closing,....
Lilies : "Wait, that`s more? I thought that was already the end."
Mari : :((
Please, look here.... :( Don`t ignore me! :(
Here's the link to the song, you can download it here
ありがとう 君がいてくれて 本当よかったよ どんな時だっていつも 笑っていられる 例えば、離れていても 何年経っても ずっと変わらないでしょ 私たちBest Friend 好きだよ、大好きだよ Arigatou Kimi ga ite kurete Hontou yokatta yo Donna toki datte itsumo Waratte irareru Tatoeba, hanareteite mo Nannen tatte mo Zutto kawaranai deshou Watashitachi Best Friend Suki dayo, daisuki da yo Thankyou, I am really grateful, that you are always by my side. So in every situation, we are always able to laugh together. Even if we are going our separate ways, No matter how many years have passed, Nothing will have changed, right? We are still best friend. I love you, I really love you. こんな遅い時間にゴメンね 一人じゃせっぱつまってきたの 君の声少し聞けたら がんばれる Konna osoi jikan ni gomen ne Hitori ja seppatsumatte kita no Kimi no koe sukoshi kiketara Ganbareru Sorry for calling you up at this late hour, Because when I`m alone by myself, I can`t do anything. But, if I could hear your voice, even just for a bit, I feel like I could keep fighting. 何でも打ち明けられる ママにも言えないことも全部 誰よりも分かってくれる Nande mo uchi akerareru MAMA ni mo ienai koto mo zenbu Dare yori mo wakatte kureru I can tell you everything, Even things I couldn`t say to my mom, Cause you understand me better than anyone else. 嬉しい時は 自分の事みたいに喜んでくれて ダメな時は ちゃんと叱ってくれる存在 Ureshii toki wa Jibun no koto mitai ni yorokonde kurete Dame na toki wa chanto shikatte kureru sonzai When I`m happy, You would be as happy as me But when I do something wrong You wouldn`t hesitate to scold me ありがとう 君がいてくれて 本当よかったよ どんな時だっていつも 笑っていられる 例えば、離れていても 何年経っても ずっと変わらないでしょ 私たちBest Friend 好きだよ、大好きだよ Arigatou Kimi ga ite kurete Hontou yokatta yo Donna toki datte itsumo Waratte irareru Tatoeba, hanareteite mo Nannen tatte mo Zutto kawaranai deshou Watashitachi Best Friend Suki dayo, daisuki da yo Thankyou, I am really grateful, that you are always by my side. So in every situation, we are always able to laugh together. Even if we are going our separate ways, No matter how many years have passed, Nothing will have changed, right? We are still best friend. I love you, I really love you. 強がってもすぐに バレてるへこんでる時は 真っ先にメールくれる優しさに もう何度も救われて Tsuyogatte mo sugu ni BAREteru hekonderu toki wa Massaki ni meru kureru yasashisa ni Mou nando mo sukuwarete Even at the moment I`m only pretending to be strong, When I`m sad, You are the first to realize and send me mails. I don`t know how many times I`ve saved by your kindness. 泣きたい時は おもいっきり泣けばいい 側にいるからって 誰よりも強い味方 Nakitai toki wa Omoikkiri nakeba ii Soba ni iru kara tte Dare yorimo tsuyoi mikata When I really want to cry. You would say, "Just cry, don`t worry, because I`ll still be by your side." More than anyone, you are my greatest ally. そんな君に私は 何かしてあげられてるかな？ 何かあったらすぐに飛んでくから、 絶対 Sonna kimi ni watashi wa Nanika shite agerareteru kana? Nanika attara suguni tondeku kara, Zettai For someone as kind as you, I wonder what can I do as my form of gratitude to you, If you ever have trouble, I would come over to your side in an instant, I promise. どんな時も祈っているよ 世界で一番に 幸せになってほしい Donna toki mo inotteiru yo Sekai de ichiban ni Shiawase ni natte hoshii No matter when, I`ll always be praying for you. So that you will be, The happiest person in this world. ありがとう 君がいてくれて 本当よかったよ どんな時だっていつも 笑っていられる 例えば、離れていても 何年経っても ずっと変わらないでしょ 私たちBest Friend 好きだよ、大好きだよ Arigatou Kimi ga ite kurete Hontou yokatta yo Donna toki datte itsumo Waratte irareru Tatoeba, hanareteite mo Nannen tatte mo Zutto kawaranai deshou Watashitachi Best Friend Suki dayo, daisuki da yo Thankyou, I am really grateful, that you are always by my side. So in every situation, we are always able to laugh together. Even if we are going our separate ways, No matter how many years have passed, Nothing will have changed, right? We are still best friend. I love you, I really love you.
****Yaaap! So now, I guess this is the real end. :)Sending you lots of love from where I am now,
7/14/2016, Osaka, Japan.Your annoying best friend,Mari :)